Checking out personals on a well-known dating site is one thing and flirting is quite another. When seeking some lustful adventures or indeed something more long-term, there are suggestions to follow. These suggestions should be taken as guidelines or better yet, as rules.
For the newbies to online dating, there will be an eagerness to share as much as possible. There might be a belief that more sharing leads to better hookups. While that may be true in some instances it remains safer to avoid oversharing.
Basics of Online Dating
Basic online dating begins with sharing videos to profiles along with photos and dating preferences. There is plenty more sharing that takes place during chats, and of course when you plan meetups. These basics linked to chatting and flirting will help you get over shyness while marinating some decorum and safety.
1. Profile Rules
As you prepare your profile, most websites will suggest using something other than your real photo. This is true on an international site for dating as you post nudes into the gallery. The reasoning is that the photos are easily linked to your facial pic. In this instance, anonymity and discretion are quickly broken. It is advisable to use the blurring option to cover up facial pics.
However, when a verified member decides to check out the blurred photo they will have access to all visuals. These include the nudes in the gallery. In a nutshell, ensure that you have not uploaded any photos showing your face. Keep things naughty with nudes if you need to while avoiding any connection to you.
2. Chatrooms
This is where the magic happens and also where hell can come alive. People share what they feel like exposing fearlessly. This is what online dating is about – letting loose. However, when sharing gets deep some members choose to expose too much. If you wish to share nudes that’s fine and dandy until someone connects them to you.
This occurs when you use a real name, and perhaps made the mistake of uploading a real photo. In chatrooms, some members willingly share their addresses. This is the riskiest approach to online dating. Users can track you down and get full information including financial data. Chatrooms are meant for sharing intimate thoughts and of course visuals. Sharing anything more personal gets you in trouble.
3. Text VS Pics
It is safer to send text messages as opposed to visuals. We all enjoy sharing nudes and receiving responses. We enjoy checking out received nudes even more. However, it is safer to text naughty thoughts knowing it does little harm. One will rarely get into trouble for sexting.
This is sharing the sexiest and most intimate thoughts in your head, which could have been from anyone. It would be exceedingly hard for someone to connect these naughty texts to you. Another advantage of texting is you can say more.
Visuals can only be sent one at a time. If you’ve never met this hottie, after about ten nudes it gets pretty boring. Texting allows you to share everything intimately and slowly before linking up. It gives you time to decide if you are ready to rip each other’s clothes off – or call them off completely.
Bottom Line
The most basic rules or suggestions center on avoiding oversharing. However, there is a final tip to all this. It involves the first meetup. Once you decide someone is worthy of your time, tag a friend along. This is important if things go downhill. The friend will help you with security issues and might give you pointers too.
